人與人之間最大的差距,不是天賦,而是行為。懈怠的人把天賦當才能,勤奮的人把努力當才能。The biggest gap between people is not talent, but behavior.
曾經(jīng)說過,讓你與眾不同的事情,你可能會覺得它是負擔,但其實不然。大多數(shù)時候,它能讓你變得優(yōu)秀。所以,在言行上,不要害怕與眾不同,因為,這才是能夠讓你和別人拉開差距的東西。said, what sets you apart can sometimes feel like a burden, but it is not. A lot of the time, it is what makes you great. So never be scared to act differently from the crowd, to speak, to act, because at the end of the day that is what sets you apart from others.
人與人的差距,是思維模式的差距:“限制型思維”的人是有多大本事,就做多大事;
“目標型思維”的人是要做多大事,就去培養(yǎng)多大本事。
沒人可以請,沒錢可以借,不懂可以外包,對手可以學習,不管遇見什么困難,只要干起來,辦法總會有的。
認知的高低,就是這樣一步步拉大的。
The gap between people is the gap in thinking patterns:
People with 'restricted thinking' can accomplish as many great things as they have the ability;
People with 'goal oriented thinking' should cultivate as many abilities as they want to achieve great things.
No one can hire, no money can borrow, no understanding can outsource, opponents can learn, no matter what difficulties you encounter, as long as you work hard, there will always be solutions.
The level of cognition is gradually increasing in this way.
為什么買大城市一套房如此重要呢?
大城市里你沒有房,身體與靈魂都留不住。有了房的孩子出生就在大城市,不會被農(nóng)村思想熏陶,孩子的命運更容易得到改變。
農(nóng)村或者小城市長大的孩子,將來還是要奔向大城市,繼續(xù)走父輩沒走過的路,吃父輩吃過的虧。
大城市長大的孩子們,從小儲備的知識、資源、認知、世界觀、領先農(nóng)村孩子十年以上。從古至今都是物以類聚人以群分,窮小子接觸不到真名媛,更別說取得到了。牛郎只能配織女,農(nóng)村女也不可能嫁富二代。
北京是政治和文化中心,頂級教育和最高權力都在這。
你想跨越階層,要么從商,要么從政。想干這些事都需要文化和財富的累積!
以前,財富差距不大時,寒門能出貴子。
如今,貴子只屬于富門。
年輕人上半場拼父母打下來的江山,下半場拼自己的人生規(guī)劃。沒有上一輩人的付出,下一輩的人就要付出更多。
Why is buying a house in a big city so important?
You don't have a house in a big city, and neither your body nor soul can stay. Children born with houses are born in big cities and are not influenced by rural ideas, making it easier for their fate to change.
Children who grow up in rural or small cities will still have to rush towards big cities in the future, continue to follow the path that their parents did not walk, and suffer from the losses that their parents have suffered.
Children who grow up in big cities have accumulated knowledge, resources, cognition, worldview, and are ahead of rural children by more than ten years since childhood. From ancient times to the present, birds of a feather flock together, and poor boys cannot come into contact with real celebrities, let alone obtain them. Cowherd can only marry Weaver Girl, and rural women cannot marry a wealthy second generation.
Beijing is the political and cultural center, where top education and highest power reside.
You want to cross social classes, either in business or in politics. To do these things requires the accumulation of culture and wealth!
In the past, when the wealth gap was not significant, a humble family could produce a noble son.
Nowadays, the noble son only belongs to the wealthy family.
In the first half, young people compete with their parents' struggles, while in the second half, they compete with their own life plans. Without the efforts of the previous generation, the next generation will have to give more.
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