一、一個(gè)人究竟要掩藏多少情緒，才能夠巧妙的度過一生。游園驚夢(mèng)，卻是真假假真是是非非，醒后徹底忘卻，我們所負(fù)累的終究只是記憶，我們錯(cuò)過的終將是回憶。How many emotions a person has to hide before he can spend his life skillfully. Tour garden dreaming, but it is true and false is right and wrong, after waking up completely forgotten, our burden is ultimately only memory, we will miss the memory.
大圖模式 二、如果有一天，你不再尋找愛情，只是去愛，你不再渴望成功，只是去做，你不再追求成長(zhǎng)，只是去修，一切才真正開始。沒有內(nèi)在的平靜，就沒有外在的安寧。If one day, you no longer look for love, just love, you no longer desire success, just do, you no longer pursue growth, just repair, everything really starts. Without inner peace, there is no external peace.
大圖模式 三、我愛有某種丑的美，我愛優(yōu)雅曼妙的風(fēng)姿，我愛勝過滔滔雄辯的沉默。我寧可一天十次看到丑。只要其中有閃光、新意和智慧，而不愿在一個(gè)月里看見一次靈魂空虛的渺小的美。 友誼真是一樣最神圣的東西，不光是值得特別推崇，而且值得永遠(yuǎn)贊揚(yáng)。I love some ugly beauty, I love elegance and grace, I love more than eloquent silence. I would rather see ugliness ten times a day. As long as there is sparkle, novelty and wisdom in it, it is unwilling to see the tiny beauty of the empty soul once in a month. Friendship is really the most sacred thing, not only worthy of special praise, but also worthy of eternal praise.
大圖模式 四、你可以愛一個(gè)人到塵埃里，但沒有人愛塵埃里的你。即使你掏心掏肺對(duì)他好到極點(diǎn)，最終也只是感動(dòng)了自己。一個(gè)人的夜，最難將息，有時(shí)會(huì)做噩夢(mèng)，但還好有你，驅(qū)散了我的夢(mèng)魘，醒來的時(shí)候，我雙眼迷離，以為那真的是你，但終究沒有你蹤跡。You can love a person to the dust, but no one loves you in the dust. Even if you pull out your heart and lungs to the utmost good for him, you will only be touched by yourself in the end.
A person's night, the most difficult to rest, sometimes have nightmares, but fortunately you, dispelled my nightmare, wake up, my eyes blurred, think that it is really you, but ultimately there is no trace of you.
大圖模式 五、在一回首間，才忽然發(fā)現(xiàn)，原來，我一生的種種努力，不過只為了周遭的人對(duì)我滿意而已。為了搏得他人的稱許與微笑，我戰(zhàn)戰(zhàn)兢兢地將自己套入所有的模式所有的桎梏。走到途中才忽然發(fā)現(xiàn)，我只剩下一副模糊的面目，和一條不能回頭的路。In a look back, I suddenly found that, originally, all my efforts in life, but only for the satisfaction of the people around me. In order to win the praise and smile of others, I tremblingly put myself into all the shackles of all modes. On the way, I suddenly found that I only had a blurred face and a road that could not be turned back.
大圖模式 六、人與人之間的感覺其實(shí)真的很難說，有些人你看第一眼就覺得難以相處，并不投緣，深交下來也會(huì)因?yàn)閷?duì)方處處踩雷的小缺點(diǎn)而把好感全部磨盡。people is really hard to say. Some people find it difficult to get along with each other at first sight. They don't fall in love with each other. They will wear out their good feelings because of the small shortcomings of trampling thunder everywhere.
大圖模式 七、一個(gè)人的錯(cuò)，一個(gè)人的孤獨(dú)，藏著太多的憂傷，珍惜的錯(cuò)，來不及問候，多少的孤獨(dú)，藏著一個(gè)人的心，藏著一個(gè)人的情，委屈自己的錯(cuò)。is a person's fault, a person's loneliness, hiding too much sadness, cherished fault, too late to greet, how much loneliness, hiding a person's heart, hiding a person's feelings, wronging their own mistakes.
大圖模式 八、凡事不必太在意，一切隨緣隨心，緣深多聚聚，緣淺隨它去。比失去更令人傷心的是，你都沒有為了跟我在一起而努力過。有一種友誼不低于愛情，有一種關(guān)系不屬于曖昧，有一種傾訴一直推心置腹，有一種結(jié)局總是難成眷屬，這就是知己。Don't care too much about everything. Everything follows its own destiny. Depth gathers and shallowness goes with it. What's more sad than losing is that you never tried to be with me. There is a friendship not less than love, a relationship not ambiguous, there is a confidant has been confident, there is an outcome is always difficult to get married, this is the confidant.
大圖模式 九、我有一個(gè)蘋果，分你一半，這是友情。我只吃一口，剩下的全給你，這是愛情。我一口沒吃，直接全給了你，那是你父母。我藏起來，對(duì)別人說我也餓了，這是社會(huì)。I have an apple, half of you, this is friendship. I only take one bite and give you the rest. It's love. I didn't eat a mouthful. I gave it all to you. That's your parents. I hide and say to others that I am hungry too. This is society.
大圖模式 十、發(fā)怒，是用別人錯(cuò)誤懲罰自己；煩惱，是用自己的過失折磨自己；后悔，是用無奈的往事摧殘自己；憂慮，是用虛擬的風(fēng)險(xiǎn)驚嚇自己。Anger is to punish oneself with the mistakes of others; worry is to torture oneself with one's own fault; regret is to destroy oneself with helpless past events; worry is to frighten oneself with virtual risks.
大圖模式 十一、總有一天你會(huì)明白，委屈要自己消化，故事不用逢人就講。真正理解你的沒有幾個(gè)，大多人只，會(huì)站在他們自己的立場(chǎng)，偷看你的笑話。你能做的，是把秘密藏起來，一步一步變強(qiáng)大。will someday understand that grievances need to be digested by yourself, and stories need not be told to anyone. Few, most people, who really understand you, will stand on their own ground and peep at your jokes. What you can do is hide your secrets and grow stronger step by step.
大圖模式 十二、 我們很多時(shí)候把依賴當(dāng)成了愛，當(dāng)看到別人沒有自己也活得很好的時(shí)候，內(nèi)心就會(huì)莫名其妙的生氣，覺得對(duì)方不愛自己了。其實(shí)真正的愛，是給對(duì)方自由，也給自己自由。We often regard dependence as love. When we see that others do not live well without themselves, we will be inexplicably angry and feel that they do not love themselves. In fact, the real love is to give each other freedom, but also to their own freedom.
大圖模式 十三、慢慢明白，生活不會(huì)因?yàn)槟硞€(gè)節(jié)點(diǎn)而變得與眾不同，未來的幸運(yùn)，都是過往努力的積攢。也許別人給得了你安慰，也給的了勸慰告誡，卻永遠(yuǎn)不知道你心底是多么的萬箭穿心。所以不論有多少的委屈，多么的難受，記得最終能治愈自己的還是自己。slowly understand that life will not be different because of a node, the future of fortune is the accumulation of past efforts. Maybe someone else has given you comfort and advice, but you never know how many arrows pierce your heart. So no matter how many grievances and how hard it is, remember that it is you who can heal yourself in the end.
大圖模式 十四、勇敢的做自己，不要為任何人而改變。如果他們不能接受最差的你，也不配擁有最好的你。你的人生我只是過客，我的人生你卻是全部。Be yourself bravely and don't change for anyone. If they can't accept the worst of you, they don't deserve the best of you. Your life is just a passer-by, but my life is all you have.
大圖模式 十五、我們用一分鐘去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人，一小時(shí)去喜歡一個(gè)人，再用一天去愛上一個(gè)人，卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。世界太大，生命太短。一定要把它過得像自己想要的那個(gè)樣子，才不辜負(fù)這段錦繡年華。takes a minute to know someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. The world is too big and life is too short. We must live it like we want, so that we can live up to this beautiful time.
大圖模式 十六、為了自己想過的生活，勇于放棄一些東西。這個(gè)世界沒有公正之處，你也永遠(yuǎn)得不到兩全之計(jì)。若要自由，就得犧牲安全。若要閑散，就不能獲得別人評(píng)價(jià)中的成就。若要愉悅，就無需計(jì)較身邊人給予的態(tài)度。若要前行，就得離開你現(xiàn)在停留的地方。has the courage to give up something for the life it wants to live. There is no justice in the world, and you will never be able to achieve both. To be free, security must be sacrificed. If you want to be idle, you will not be able to achieve what others have judged.
If you want to be happy, you don't need to care about the attitude of others around you. If you want to move on, you have to leave where you are staying.
大圖模式 十七、人與人之間，開始讓人舒服的也許是你的言語，但后來讓人信服的一定是你的人品。做人，就要做一個(gè)讓人放心的人。無論認(rèn)識(shí)多少年，都能由衷地說一句，認(rèn)識(shí)你真好。人與人之間，最大的吸引力，不是你的容顏，不是你的財(cái)富，也不是你的才華；而是你傳遞給對(duì)方的信賴和踏實(shí)、真誠(chéng)和善良。人生，并不全是競(jìng)爭(zhēng)和利益，更多的是相互成就，彼此溫暖！may be comfortable with your words at first, but it must be your character that convinces you later. To be a man, we must be a reassuring person. No matter how many years I have known you, I can sincerely say that it's good to know you.
Among people, the greatest attraction is not your face, not your wealth, nor your talent, but the trust and steadfastness, sincerity and kindness you convey to each other. Life is not all about competition and interests, but more about mutual achievement and warmth.
大圖模式 十八、走了，秋天散了，就連心愛的冬天也要離別，如何讓我珍惜現(xiàn)在的現(xiàn)在，讓我如何看透你的離別，畢竟風(fēng)景的愛，心中的情，只是一個(gè)熟悉的陌生。
Spring is gone, autumn is gone, even my beloved winter has to leave, how to let me cherish the present, how to let me see through your parting, after all, the love of the scenery, the feelings in my heart, is just a familiar stranger.
大圖模式 十九、 總有一些人原本只是生命的過客，后來卻成了記憶的?？停】床磺宓臇|西，就讓它繼續(xù)模糊下去吧。有些事，有些愛，有些人，看得太透徹，反而會(huì)受傷害。always has some people who were just passers-by of life, but later became frequent visitors of memory! If you can't see clearly, let it go on blurring. Some things, some love, some people, see too thoroughly, but will be injured.
大圖模式 二十、盡己力，聽天命。無愧于心，不惑于情。順勢(shì)而為，隨遇而安。知錯(cuò)就改，迷途知返。在喜歡自己的人身上用心，在不喜歡自己的人身上健忘。如此一生，甚好。does its best to obey the destiny. Be worthy of your heart, not confused with your feelings. Follow the trend and be at ease. If you know what is wrong, you will correct it, and if you are lost, you will know how to return. Careful in people who like themselves, forgetful in people who don't like themselves. Such a lifetime, very good.
大圖模式 二十一、當(dāng)你熬過最孤獨(dú)的時(shí)刻，就會(huì)覺得其實(shí)也不過如此，沒有你想象的那么難過，也就不需要?jiǎng)e人陪伴了。when you get through the most lonely moments, you will feel that in fact it is just like this, not as sad as you imagine, and you do not need to be accompanied by others.
大圖模式 二十二、 人生短暫，歲月帶著年華走，歡喜悲傷皆浮華，做心里最真實(shí)的自己，不虛偽，不做作。過自己最向往的生活，不摧眉，不折腰。感恩有助于自己的人，不忘義，不忘情。面對(duì)生活的不順與挫折，不嘆息，不惆悵，以平和的心態(tài)珍惜每一天。Life is short, time goes with time, joy and sorrow are flashy, be the most true self in your heart, not hypocritical, not artificial. Live the life that you yearn for most, don't destroy your eyebrows, don't bend down. Gratitude helps those who are not forgetful, not forgetful. Faced with the frustration and discomfort of life, do not sigh, do not feel sad, cherish every day with a peaceful mind.
大圖模式 二十三、其實(shí)很多人不是輸給別人，是輸給自己，不是沒有能力而是沒有膽量，人生不是我們做了什么而后悔，而是因?yàn)槭裁炊紱]做而后悔，一個(gè)輸不起的人，也往往嬴不了。In fact, many people do not lose to others, to themselves, not without ability but without courage, life is not what we did and regret, but because nothing has been done and regret, a person who can not afford to lose, also often can not win.
大圖模式 二十四、 最暖心的感覺，莫過于我隨隨便便說的話，有人認(rèn)真地把它聽了而且還做了。如果有一天我被你騙了，請(qǐng)你明白，我不是笨，而是我足夠相信你。The warmest feeling is that when I say something casually, someone listens to it carefully and does it. If one day I was cheated by you, please understand that I am not stupid, but I believe you enough.
大圖模式 二十五、沒有了你，這個(gè)世界多么寂寞。日久不一定生情，但必定見人心，時(shí)間會(huì)說出真話。每個(gè)人都有一段人讓自己痛哭流涕的過去，總會(huì)時(shí)不時(shí)地想起那個(gè)人，那個(gè)住在自己內(nèi)心深處始終忘不掉的人。without you, how lonely the world is. Time does not necessarily mean sentiment, but it does mean meeting people's hearts and telling the truth. Everyone has a time when people let themselves cry, and they always think of that person, who lives in their hearts and never forgets.
