前天我經(jīng)歷了第一次真正的“急救”。出門(mén)時(shí)見(jiàn)到一女孩,手按著肚子,蹲著,很痛苦的樣子。大廈的保安也正好想上前看看她發(fā)生什么事。我走上前扶著她,問(wèn)她怎么了,她說(shuō)來(lái)月經(jīng),肚子很疼,暈,想吐但吐不出來(lái)。我邊扶著她,邊叫保安拿椅子過(guò)來(lái)讓她坐下??粗钒椎哪?,發(fā)白的唇,我問(wèn)她,我?guī)湍闩呐暮脝帷K巡荒苷f(shuō)話(huà)了,只能點(diǎn)頭。我便開(kāi)始拍打她的內(nèi)關(guān),她沒(méi)多大反應(yīng),只緊握著拳頭,輕輕地說(shuō)很冷。有個(gè)女保安趕過(guò)來(lái)扶著女孩的頭,女孩的頭軟軟地癱在女保安的身上。我只管拍打她的內(nèi)關(guān),拍了十來(lái)下之后,她突然張開(kāi)眼睛,說(shuō)“好痛”,我說(shuō)“痛就好,你醒了”。
旁邊圍觀(guān)的人開(kāi)始多了,有些人拿藥酒給女孩聞,有些人按著她的人中,有些人拿著水想讓她喝。我大聲地說(shuō),不能給她水,會(huì)嗆死她的。也有人開(kāi)始阻止我拍打,說(shuō)會(huì)打破她的血管,我不加理會(huì),繼續(xù)拍,直到女孩喊痛,縮手不讓我拍,我才停下來(lái)。但停了不久,她又暈過(guò)去了。我又開(kāi)始拍打她的內(nèi)關(guān)。拍的過(guò)程中不斷有人說(shuō),別拍別拍,拍死她了。我不管,繼續(xù)拍。
但群眾的質(zhì)疑聲實(shí)在太多,而且開(kāi)始有人想推開(kāi)我,不讓我拍,所以我只能使出平常三成的拍打力度,拍得女孩的內(nèi)關(guān)紅紅的,隱隱看到黑痧點(diǎn)。這時(shí)女孩又開(kāi)始醒過(guò)來(lái),又喊痛了,我也就大聲說(shuō),“痛就好,你醒了”。她手又縮回去,不讓我拍了。旁邊的人又說(shuō),你別拍了,她醒了,拍破她血管了!我又停了一下。這樣子拍拍停停三、四次之后,救護(hù)車(chē)來(lái)了。女孩也可以閉著眼說(shuō)話(huà)了,我便不拍了。她被抬上救護(hù)車(chē)時(shí),看著我輕輕的地說(shuō)了聲謝謝...
過(guò)了大概二十多分鐘,我辦完事回來(lái),那輛救護(hù)車(chē)還未走??赡苁桥⒄娴耐耆堰^(guò)來(lái)了,救護(hù)人員在觀(guān)察要不要送她到醫(yī)院吧?
我之前的急救經(jīng)驗(yàn)只包括在體驗(yàn)營(yíng)時(shí)看到教練操作、在體驗(yàn)營(yíng)當(dāng)義工時(shí)半?yún)⑴c過(guò)、看過(guò)蕭老師的急救小冊(cè)子、看過(guò)蕭老師有關(guān)急救的大部分博文和老公氣沖病灶頭暈想吐的時(shí)候給他拍打急救,但在街上這樣為陌生人急救還是第一次。上天第一次這樣子考驗(yàn)我對(duì)拍打拉筋的信心和勇氣!
怕不怕女孩出事連累我?說(shuō)真的,剛開(kāi)始時(shí)腦子真的閃過(guò)要不要不管這事,但這念頭一閃而過(guò)。當(dāng)時(shí)的情況是,我根本沒(méi)時(shí)間想太多,只能跟著我的“感覺(jué)”行事。我當(dāng)時(shí)只有一個(gè)很強(qiáng)烈的感覺(jué):我不能不理她?,F(xiàn)在對(duì)這個(gè)情況再想一次,我的理性決定是:我還是會(huì)這樣做的。我深信如果我做的事是對(duì)的、是真心的,上天會(huì)保佑我的。
上天會(huì)保佑每一個(gè)真心的人。
Wendy
2014.10.17
香港
The other day I experiencedmy first real Paida ’first aid’.I was going out and I noticed agirl, kneeling down with her hand covering her stomach, lookinglike she was in deep pain. A security guard noticed this too andwas walking towards her to see what was happening. I, too, went upto her, helped her leaned against me, and asked if she needed help.She said her period was coming, and she felt very painful, wantedto puke but couldn’t. I held onto her and asked the security guardto give her a chair so she could sit down.Seeing her face and lipsturning white, I asked her "Can I do Paida for you?" By thatmoment, she couldn’t speak anymore and could just nod slightly. So I started Paida her Nei Guan (herwrist). She didn’t react much to the Paida and just had her fistheld tight and whispered lightly that she felt very cold. A ladysecurity guard came and held the girl’s head and held onto her bodyas the girl didn’t have any strength to even sitting upright. And Ijust kept slapping her wrist. After about 10 slaps, the girlsuddenly opened her eyes and said "so painful", and I said " beingpainful is good, you wake up now"!
At that point, people startedgathering around her, some tried to give her ailment oil to thenose, some tried pressing her Ren Zhong (the acupoint below thenose), some tried giving her water. I said loudly "you cannot giveher water, she’ll choke". At the same time some people started tostop me from slapping the girl, saying “you’ll break her bloodvessels”. I didn’t stop, and just kept slapping her wrist, untilshe woke up again, saying the slapping was painful and pulled herwrist away from me. But after the slapping stopped, the girlfainted away again. So I started slapping her wrist again, amongstnoises around me kept saying "don’t slap, you’ll slap her todeath". I didn’t stop and just kept slapping.
But thedoubtful mass atmosphere was strong, and someone started to try andpush me away from the girl, so I could only slap her with about 30%of the force of my usual slapping. Her wrist started to turn red,and spots of black Sha began to surface. At this point, the girlwoke up again saying "pain!", and I again said "pain is good, youwoke up!" She again pulled her wrist away from me. And others alsosaid "stop slapping her, she woke up now. You’ll break her bloodvessels." And I stopped for a bit. After this slapping- stopping-slapping- stopping went on for about three, four times, theambulance came, and the girl could speak very lightly with her eyesclosed, so I stopped the slapping.The girl whispered "thank you" tome as she was being rolled up into theambulance...
After about 20 minutes I cameback home after I finished my chores, I saw the ambulance was stillthere, with the emergency siren lights turned off. I wondered ifthe girl was really recovering and the emergency care givers wereobserving whether she needed to be sent tohospital.
My previousPaida first-aid experience include, seeing how coaches at theworkshop did it when I was a workshop participant, half-helped outat another workshop when I was a volunteer, having read MasterXiao’s first aid guide and read most of Master Xiao’s blogs andothers’ testimonials on first aid, and having applied Paida firstaid to my husband when he experienced healing crisis feeling dizzyand wanting to puke. But having applied Paida first aid like thisto a stranger on the street was my first time. Maybe God wastesting to see if I really had the courage and the confidence inPaidaLajin.
Had I thefear of mishap might happen to the girl and then I would get theblame? Honestly, the thought of - whether I should get involved inthat - did come up, but that thought only came up for a very briefmoment. At the time, I only followed my intuition and didn’t havetime to think too much. At the time, the feeling of - I could notignore her - was very strong and it superceded everything. Thinkingabout it now again, my ’rational’ decision is, I will still do it.I firmly believe, if what I do is truly, genuinely the right thingto do, and I do it with a good heart, God will protectme.
God will bless all those witha good heart.
Wendy
2014.10.17
Hong Kong
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