一、群處守嘴，獨(dú)處守心。修己以清心為要，涉世以慎言為先。謹(jǐn)記！
Keep one's mouth shut, keep one's heart shut. To cultivate oneself is to purify one's mind, and to deal with the world is to speak carefully. Remember!
二、人生的大智慧，不過六個(gè)字：拿得起，放得下。前者決定你能活得多輕松，后者決定你能走多遠(yuǎn)。
The great wisdom of life, but six words: affordable, put down. The former decides how easy you can live, and the latter decides how far you can go.
三、如果你是對(duì)的，你沒必要發(fā)脾氣；如果你是錯(cuò)的，你沒資格去發(fā)脾氣。——這才是真正的智慧
If you are right, you don't need to lose your temper; if you are wrong, you are not entitled to lose your temper. —— That's the real wisdom.
四、合適的人生位置，既不靠近錢，也不靠近權(quán)，而是靠近靈魂；真正的幸福，既不是富貴，也不是凡事都對(duì)，而是問心無愧。
The right place in life is neither near money nor power, but near soul; true happiness is neither wealth nor everything is right, but a clear conscience.
五、被人理解是幸運(yùn)的，但不被理解不一定不幸。一個(gè)把自己的價(jià)值完全寄托于他人的理解上面的人往往并無價(jià)值。
Being understood is lucky, but not being understood is not necessarily unfortunate. A person who places his value entirely on the understanding of others often has no value.
六、人性有一個(gè)弱點(diǎn)，你越在意什么，什么就越折磨你。當(dāng)你不再畏手畏腳，當(dāng)你鼓起勇氣，下定決心忠于自己，每一天都將是最好的狀態(tài)。
There is a weakness in human nature. The more you care about it, the more it tortures you. When you stop being afraid of your hands and feet, when you summon up courage and make up your mind to be loyal to yourself, every day will be the best state.
七、與其埋怨世界，不如改變自己。管好自己的心，做好自己的事，這比什么都強(qiáng)。
Instead of complaining about the world, change yourself. It's better to take care of your heart and do your own thing than anything else.
八、人生只售單程票，過去的就過去了，不要頻頻回首，在哪里存在，就在哪里綻放。
Life only sells one-way tickets, the past is gone, do not look back frequently, where exists, where blossoms.
九、記住三句話：知人不必言盡，言盡則無友。責(zé)人不必苛盡，苛盡則眾遠(yuǎn)。敬人不必卑盡，卑盡則少骨。
Remember three sentences: Knowledgeable people don't have to say everything, but they have no friends. Blame people need not be harsh, harsh is far away. Respect for others does not have to be humble, humble is less bones.
十、活著一天，就是有福氣，就該珍惜。當(dāng)我哭泣我沒有鞋子穿的時(shí)候，我發(fā)現(xiàn)有人卻沒有腳。
To live a day is to be blessed and cherished. When I cried that I had no shoes on, I found that some people had no feet.
十一、人生的每個(gè)抉擇都像是一個(gè)賭局，輸贏都是自己的。不同的是賭注的大小，選擇了就沒有反悔的機(jī)會(huì)。
Every decision in life is like a gambling game. Win or lose is your own. The difference is the size of the bet, there is no chance to repent when you choose.
十二、輕財(cái)足以聚人，律己足以服人，量寬足以得人，身先足以率人?！鴩?/p>
Light wealth is enough to gather people, self-discipline is enough to convince people, generosity is enough to get people, and leadership is enough. —— Zeng Guofan
十三、無論是對(duì)事還是對(duì)人，我們只需要做好自己的本分，不與過多人建立親密的關(guān)系，也不要因?yàn)殛P(guān)系親密便掏心掏肺，切莫交淺言深，應(yīng)適合而止。
Whether it's for the right thing or for the right person, we just need to do our part well, not to establish intimate relationship with too many people, and do not pull out our hearts and hearts because of intimacy. Never say anything in a simple way, it should be suitable.
十四、自由不是讓你想做什么就做什么，自由是你不想做什么，就可以不做什么。
Freedom is not what you want to do. Freedom is what you don't want to do, you can do nothing.
十五、人越是怕丟人，就越在乎別人的看法。越在乎別人的看法，就越會(huì)忽略自己的感受。越忽略自己的感受，就越像木偶一樣拼命活給別人看。最后，一步步將真實(shí)的自我囚禁在了深深的黑暗里。
The more people fear humiliation, the more they care about what others think. The more you care about other people's opinions, the more you ignore your feelings. The more you ignore your feelings, the more you will live like a puppet to others. Finally, step by step, the true self is imprisoned in deep darkness.
十六、要得到你想要的某件東西，最可靠的辦法是讓你自己配得上它?！槔怼っ⒏?/p>
The surest way to get something you want is to make yourself worthy of it. —— Charlie Munger
十七、未曾清貧難做人，不經(jīng)打擊永天真。成熟，不過是善于隱藏；滄桑，不過是無淚有傷。
Never be poor, never be naive. Mature, but good at hiding; vicissitudes, but no tears hurt.
十八、我們這一生，路要自己走，苦要自己吃，任何人無法給予全部依賴，以為走不過去的路，跨過去后回頭看看，也不過如此。
In our lifetime, we have to go our own way and eat our own way. No one can rely on it completely. We think that we can't go through the road. We can look back after the past, but it's just the same.
十九、有些事放開就好，看開就好，不必計(jì)較太多。心寬，就是對(duì)自己最好的禮物。
Some things are just as good as being open, so you don't have to worry too much about them. Being broad-minded is the best gift for yourself.
二十、別等不該等的人，別傷不該傷的心。有些人，注定是生命中的過客；有些事，常常讓我們很無奈。與其傷心流淚，不如從容面對(duì)。
Don't wait for the wrong person, don't hurt the wrong heart. Some people are doomed to be passers-by in life; some things often make us feel helpless. It's better to face it calmly than to cry.
二十一、愛情友情都一樣，等你足夠強(qiáng)大，相應(yīng)的圈子會(huì)主動(dòng)來吸納你，無需自作悲憫，更無須刻意討好，你需要的是自我豐盈與精彩。
Love and friendship are the same, when you are strong enough, the corresponding circle will take the initiative to absorb you, without self-pity, not to deliberately please, you need to be self-enrichment and brilliance.
二十二、堅(jiān)持自己所選擇的，相信自己所堅(jiān)持的，才是屬于你自己的正確道路。別人怎么看你并不重要，重要的是你要做你自己，去做自己認(rèn)為正確的事。
Sticking to what you choose and believing what you insist on is the right way to belong to you. It doesn't matter what other people think of you. The important thing is to be yourself and do what you think is right.
二十三、你選擇什么，就收獲什么。所有結(jié)局，在最開始就埋下了伏筆。成為想成為的人，不要只是說說而已。
You can harvest whatever you choose. All the endings, in the beginning laid the foreshadows. Be the person you want to be, don't just talk about it.
二十四、你給自己一個(gè)高度，世界總會(huì)還你一個(gè)尺度。無論生活怎樣，都不要忘記微笑，愿你成為自己的太陽，無需憑借誰的光。
If you give yourself a height, the world will always give you a yardstick. No matter what your life is like, don't forget to smile. Wish you become your own sun, no need to rely on anyone's light.
二十五、從來沒有無緣無故的好和壞，也沒有莫名其妙的成與敗，有的只是我們每個(gè)人對(duì)當(dāng)下的把握和努力。
Never good or bad for no reason, nor inexplicable success or failure, there is only the grasp and efforts of each of us at the moment.
二十六、只要內(nèi)心不亂，外界就很難改變你什么。不要艷羨他人，不要輸?shù)糇约骸?/p>
It's hard for the outside world to change anything as long as there's no chaos in your heart. Don't envy others, don't lose yourself.
二十七、其實(shí)所有糾結(jié)做選擇的人心里早就有了答案，咨詢只是想得到內(nèi)心所傾向的選擇。最終的所謂命運(yùn)，還是自己一步步走出來的?！獤|野圭吾
In fact, all those who struggle to make choices already have answers in their hearts. Consulting just wants to get the choices they are inclined to make. The ultimate so-called fate, or step by step out of their own. —— Kuiwu Dongno
二十八、放縱自己的欲望是最大的禍害；談?wù)搫e人的隱私是最大的罪惡；不知自己過失是最大的病痛。
To indulge one's desires is the greatest evil; to talk about the privacy of others is the greatest evil; to know one's fault is the greatest pain.
二十九、把一切平凡的事做好即不平凡，把一切簡(jiǎn)單的事做好即不簡(jiǎn)單。
To do all the ordinary things well is extraordinary, and to do all the simple things well is not simple.
三十、每一次選擇必須是一次超越，否則就不要選擇；每一次放棄必須是一次升華，否則就不要放棄。Every choice must be a transcendence, otherwise do not choose; every give up must be a sublimation, otherwise do not give up.
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