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【075】翻譯：Solitary Socialite

2022.04.18

Solitary Socialite

獨(dú)處隱士
By Derek Sivers

This is just a self-indulgent bit about myself — something I feel like describing, because I find it unusual and interesting.
這是我有關(guān)我自己的一點(diǎn)，因?yàn)槲野l(fā)現(xiàn)它與眾不同且有趣。

For the past eight years, I’ve answered emails from 40-200 people per day, asking my advice on business and life.
過去八年以來，我每天回復(fù)40-200封郵件，讓我針對(duì)有關(guān)業(yè)務(wù)和個(gè)人方面給些建議。

I’ll sit alone in my little office for 8-10 hours, engaging with 100 people’s lives and questions for a few minutes each, and then go home.
我會(huì)獨(dú)自坐在我不大的辦公室8-10小時(shí)，感受100多人的生活與問題，每個(gè)人都要花上幾分鐘，然后回家。

Then when friends want to hang out with me, I say I need some alone time first.
每當(dāng)有朋友想拉我一起下班的時(shí)候，我都會(huì)說讓我一個(gè)人再待會(huì)。

They say I’ve been alone all day. So I explain that I’ve been massively social all day long, and feel spent, even though I’ve been sitting alone.
他們說我已經(jīng)一個(gè)人待了一整天了。我會(huì)跟他們解釋我做了一整天的社會(huì)活動(dòng)，已經(jīng)感覺精疲力盡了，盡管我是獨(dú)自一人坐著。

I like it, so I’m not complaining — just explaining. It’s unusual to be physically alone, but extremely social. A solitary socialite.
我喜歡這樣，所以我毫無怨言——做下說明而已。我通常一個(gè)人獨(dú)處，尤其社交。一個(gè)獨(dú)處的人！

At first I thought this was a new internet thing. But for decades there have been people who talk on the phone all day long. Before that, there were people who just answered paper mail all day long.
首先，我認(rèn)為這是一件新鮮有趣的事。最近幾十年以來有人會(huì)打一整天電話。在這之前，人們會(huì)用一整天時(shí)間回復(fù)書信。

It works for me. I love people one-on-one. When not answering emails, I’m often talking on the phone with one of my dear friends across the world, getting into great conversations for hours.
這為我所用。我喜歡與人一對(duì)一交流。當(dāng)我不在回復(fù)郵件時(shí)，我常常會(huì)打電話給世界各地的好朋友，進(jìn)行長達(dá)數(shù)小時(shí)的對(duì)話。

But it’s a strange life. The solitary socialite.
這是種特別的人生。獨(dú)處隱士！

小結(jié)：我最喜歡本文的一句話

I’m often talking on the phone with one of my dear friends across the world, getting into great conversations for hours.

作者在文中表達(dá)，除了一對(duì)一回復(fù)郵件，還會(huì)與世界各地的朋友常常通電話，保持溝通交流。這是一種非常簡單但很好的保持聯(lián)絡(luò)的方法。

人是群居動(dòng)物，離不開社會(huì)。但有些人喜歡與很多人一起，有些人喜歡獨(dú)處。

你是喜歡獨(dú)處更多一些，還是喜歡與眾人共處更多一些。