改變自己的生活，做最好的自己:這十件事請(qǐng)放手(情感篇)
Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can starttoday and make a new ending. But before you can begin this process oftransformation you have to stop doing the things that have been holding youback.
沒(méi)有人可以回到過(guò)去，然后重新開(kāi)始。但是每個(gè)人都可以從今天開(kāi)始，改變自己的生活。在你重新打造自己的人生之前，你需要先停下那些拖后腿的事。
1.Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short tospend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants youin their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.
1.不要把時(shí)間浪費(fèi)在錯(cuò)的人身上。人生苦短，你沒(méi)有時(shí)間去浪費(fèi)在那些阻礙你獲得幸福的人身上。如果對(duì)方需要你，那么他們自然會(huì)為你騰出空間來(lái)。你不必為了在對(duì)方的生命里占有一席之地而苦苦掙扎。
2.Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. – The most painfulthing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, andforgetting that you are special too. If there was ever a moment to follow yourpassion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
2.不要把自己的需求置之腦后。最痛苦的事莫過(guò)于愛(ài)一個(gè)人的時(shí)候失去了自我，忘記了自己也是如此特別的存在。如果你從沒(méi)有追隨自己的熱情去做一件對(duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)重要的事，那么你還在等什么呢。
3.Stopgetting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. – Relationships mustbe chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s noneed to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time,with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready,not when you’re lonely.
3.不要為了戀愛(ài)而戀愛(ài)。戀愛(ài)一定要慎重，寧缺毋濫。感情的事急不得。如果命中注定，在對(duì)的時(shí)間就會(huì)遇到對(duì)的人，有著最合適的理由。當(dāng)你準(zhǔn)備好了才去發(fā)展一段感情，不要因?yàn)榧拍賽?ài)。
4.Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. –In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some willtest you, some will use you and some will teach you. But most importantly, somewill bring out the best in you.
4.不要因?yàn)檫^(guò)去的感情失敗而拒絕開(kāi)始一段新關(guān)系。每個(gè)人出現(xiàn)在你的生活中都是有原因的。有些人考驗(yàn)?zāi)?，有些人利用你，有些人教?dǎo)你。最重要的是，所有這些人將鍛造出一個(gè)最好的你。
5.Stop trying to buy happiness. – Many of the things we desire areexpensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free– love, laughter and working on our passions.
5.不要用錢去買幸福。我們想買的很多東西都價(jià)格不菲。但事實(shí)是，真正能讓我們快樂(lè)幸福的東西卻是完全免費(fèi)的，比如愛(ài)、歡笑和工作的激情。
6.Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. – If you’re nothappy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-termrelationship with anyone else either. You have to create stability in your ownlife first before you can share it with someone else.
6.不要專從他人身上獲取幸福。如果你對(duì)自己都不能感到滿意的話，長(zhǎng)遠(yuǎn)來(lái)講，無(wú)論和誰(shuí)相處你都不會(huì)感到快樂(lè)。所以在你開(kāi)始與他人分享你的人生之前，你要做的就是要讓自己變得更平和。
7.Stop trying to be someone you’re not. – One of the greatest challengesin life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyoneelse. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someonewill always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people willlike you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.
7.不要嘗試去做別人。人生最大的挑戰(zhàn)之一就是，在一個(gè)喪失自我的世界中保持自我。總有人會(huì)比你漂亮，比你聰明，比你年輕，但他們永遠(yuǎn)也不是你。不要為了別人而改變自己。做你自己，那個(gè)對(duì)的人會(huì)喜歡那個(gè)真正的你。
8.Stop trying to compete against everyone else. – Don’t worry aboutwhat others are doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own recordsevery day. Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.
8.不要拿自己去和其他人比。不要擔(dān)心別人會(huì)做得比你好。你只需要每天都做得比前一天好就可以了。成功是一場(chǎng)和自己的比賽。
9.Stop being jealous of others. – Jealousy is the art of countingsomeone else’s blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What’ssomething I have that everyone wants?”
9.不要嫉妒別人。嫉妒就是只看別人的幸福，而忽視自己的快樂(lè)。捫心自問(wèn)“我有什么是別人都羨慕的呢？”
10.Stop trying to hold onto the past. – You can’t start the nextchapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.
10.不要抓住過(guò)去不放。如果你一直停留在過(guò)去的一頁(yè)，又怎么能翻開(kāi)人生的新篇章呢。
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